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WITHOUT having to rebrand, create a challenge or funnel, or work 24/7 and have clients, $$, (and ice cream) coming TO you…😉
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My sister and I visited our cousin in Dallas when we were adolescents and the three of us spent the day at Six Flags Amusement Park. My sister bought herself an ice cream in a waffle cone but I didn’t. I thought I didn’t “need” it and that I “should” save my money.
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But of course, I WANTED it. 😳
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I asked her if I could have a bite of her ice cream. She said no.
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I was FURIOUS.
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It was her ice cream but somehow I felt it was my right to have some even though I could have bought my own but chose not to. 🤨
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My anger, perhaps from years of holding back from what I wanted and learning (teaching myself) I didn’t deserve it, exploded.
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It was directed at my sister’s waffle cone which I summarily destroyed with my fist.
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Since I was prohibited from enjoying HER ice cream, I made sure she was too. 🤨
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Do you ever feel that way when you look at someone else’s success?
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You are filled with envy as you want it to be YOURS and instead of being happy for them, you feel angry (mostly at yourself), and frustrated (again at yourself) that you are not where they are, and a little part of you thinks, well maybe it won’t last…
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We don’t like to admit these “ugly” parts of ourselves but, honestly, they are normal.
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Most of us are good human beings and won’t actively seek to destroy someone else’s business (like I did my sister’s ice cream cone). 🙁
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Part of us knows, too, that if they can do it, then of course, we can too.
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The part of us that feels angry is that little bit of us that is like a helpless child who feels like a victim to circumstance as they witness inconsistencies in how their parents treat them compared to their siblings (among other things). They learn “rules” for behavior – how to get approval and avoid punishment – and this gets hard-wired in their brain.
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Twenty years later (or more), you’re building a coaching practice and your brain is wired the same way.
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For many people, getting approval is connected to working hard, and in my case, it was working hard AND not getting all of what I wanted. That’s fun, isn’t it? 😏
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The good thing is that with this deeper awareness of the origin of the pattern that is keeping your business from experiencing the level of success you truly desire comes freedom.
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In my 90-day program, the first step in my three-step Quantum Vision process is to guide my clients to uncover their core ‘defining moment’ and to SEE how it led to the development of their unique gifts. We then go deeper to connect their unique gifts to the process they lead their clients through in their program so they SEE the power and value of their work in a way they never have before. 💎
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What happens then is my clients start booking sales calls and making sales WITHOUT having to rebrand, create a challenge or funnel, or work nonstop – they transform how they run their business from the inside out.
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They SEE it doesn’t have to be complicated and that it can be easy. Like when one of my clients, who had gone MONTHS without a sale, made a sale within 72 hours of our first session from someone reaching out TO her. 👑
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You see, with Quantum Vision the comparison game fades away.
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You see there is NO ONE doing what only you can do in the way that you do it.
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And, since I guide you to create your own unique signature system, you embody a grounded confidence and security that you can never get from following someone else’s formula.
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Now, when you hear of someone’s success, that little devil of envy is long gone and in its place, genuine happiness for them. 😊 Because you KNOW there is ALWAYS enough for EVERYONE.
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When you create success on your own terms, you allow in more of what you truly desire and you ENJOY it. (Bye bye sacrifice!)
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You’re even willing to share your ice cream in a waffle cone with others. 🍦 Naturally.